LDS Dating
This brings up a possible issue that is a common problem in the dating scene. There is a stereotype that all LDS singles are only looking for a long term relationship. This of course is not the case, but LDS singles that are happy to date are often disappointed that they can not find other LDS singles that want the same. If you are looking for a casual relationship or friendship, beware of others that are not.
On the other hand if you are only interested in a long term relationship, don’t waste your time on others who are not ready to settle down yet. Being lonely may make you consider lowering your standards, but if you are really looking for love, this will only delay finding the right person.
First, you need to look at how you are meeting people. Do you make an effort to introduce yourself and talk to people? Do you socialize and actually come in contact with people you could potentially date? Many people sit at home all of the time and complain they can not find anyone. It is simply playing the odds – the more people you meet, the better your chances.
Some people are just not very social, so going out to cafes or social events is not really their cup of tea. Online LDS dating services actually provide a great way to “meet” people without having to leave the house – at least for a little while. Some LDS dating sites go as far as to only allow you to communicate by internet for a specified period of time before talking on the phone or meeting in person. This may work if you are really looking for a long-term relationship.
If you are meeting people at social functions that just are not what you are looking for, try looking at other sources. Join a social organization, or simply walk through a museum or bookstore. Open your possibilities and you will widen the people you have to choose from.